A little bit of theory.
Find themes to communicate with your boyfriend or girlfriend a lot easier. You are well known each other over time. You can use what you know in your everyday communication.
If it is about the relationship, which began recently, there may be a barrier of communication, but because of what you know is not so much about your boyfriend or girlfriend. At this point, the best option is to reveal as much as possible in order to find something in common between both of you. At this stage the relationship that you can recall with interesting topics from the past and talk about your goals for the future. There is a chance that your significant person has the same or similar stories goal. Thus, you will find not only a thread for communication, but also something in common. For the first time it will be a good start.
If the relationship lasts a long time and you have become accustomed to each other that may occur silence between you. The silence in a relationship which is lasts a long time it also quite normal.
Regardless of how long you are in a relationship, communication - it is a way to learn and even understand each other much better, learn more about your other half and just get closer.
5 topics for dialogue
All of these topics you can use every day.
- Plans for the weekend. Plan your leisure and relaxation, even if today is Monday. First of all, it's fun and exciting, and secondly, you'll be waiting eagerly awaited weekend. There is a lot of event themed sites that are created to help monitor the events that take place in your city.
- Compliments. Talking about the qualities that you like is an integral part of any relationship. This topic will not only be enjoyable, but also shows how much you value and appreciate sweetheart or lover. Try praising your mate, give nice compliments, and do it with feelings, with love.
- The daily care. Wonder about what happened during the day as sleep last night, how did the working day or a day at school, tired (a) whether he or she is for the whole day, worrying whether something is - all this makes it possible to feel the care from a loved one, not least in the relationship.
- Job. One of the places where we spend a large amount of his time - the job (study). On the day the event occurs. In the workplace, conflicts often arise, and all sorts of situations. Also, talking about work, you both will be easier to understand each other better from a professional points of view.
- Little Secrets. It is always interesting to talk about secrets. Can you make it a game at a time revealing a secret? It is exciting and very fun.